

Gemma Song is a storyteller, tastemaker, and muse in New York City.
A twenty-first century courtesan, a dinner & travel companion, a ward of simple pleasures. The euphemisms go on & on...
Gemma is a reincarnation of all the dreams I’ve ever had. She exists in the moments when the skin bares between worlds, and the materials of the land ripen with an electric magic. In the wild, she's not exactly approachable. You don't want her to be.
In private, you'll find, I love to laugh. Born in the Year of the Monkey, I am led by my curious and mischievous nature, which lends from decades of sticking my nose into dusty corners of the library. My friends endear me as charming and magnetic, qualities they say cannot be replicated by clever marketing or computer software. My tongue can be as sharp as my cheekbones, that some would call wit and others call blasphemy, but when you sand down the edges, I am simply a romantic in an ever changing world. I love formulaic plot arcs, I can be a bit of an art snob, I'm impatient waiting in lines, I want the best. I hate the internet, I love the internet. I spend too much money on shoes and I care too much. I wish I were better at eavesdropping, but it’s probably better I mind my own business. And though I consider myself a free bird, if you are the type to ask a lady her age or measurements, you will find that I become surprisingly demure, for I seek not to be purely bound within the contours of your mind.
Dear suitor, I have a secret to tell you: The power of good company can be distilled into a feeling.
Like watching the morning frost melt, the slow magic of conversation stretched across hours transmutes time and space. Good conversation is the soil from which every encounter grows.
I’m tempted to say time spent with me allows for escape from the dregs of ordinary life, but I’d be standing on the shoulders of many courtesans before me. Like a good novel or film, some courtesans entertain, and others linger, challenge, and reshape the way you see the world. Really, time with me is a glorious exercise in paying attention. Whether we are poolside basking under the sun or across a candlelit table— intimacy is a dance, which is a kind of language, one that cannot be mastered by technique but by being in the present. I believe there is a fallacy in chasing idealized versions of ourselves, in running the hedonic treadmill. Don’t get me wrong: you can and should try to woo me with everything you can muster. Attractive is a man with a reverence for the dynamic woman who embodies both grace and chaos, with the ancient instinct and animal drive to build an empire for her. After all, an act of devotion can satiate the search for knowledge and beauty far better than hard discipline. But what do I know. As Anais Nin once said, “A kiss can destroy a philosophy.”
xx

"An hour is not just an hour, it is a vessel full of perfumes, sounds, plans, and atmospheres."
— Marcel Proust


OPENING CEREMONY (1 HR)
1500
Bulbous floral hearts. Creamy tuberose. White musk, fulfilled wishes.
APERO HOUR (3 HR)
3000
Warm amber, skin-contact wine, the tension between metallic brine on your breath & smooth jazz.
EVENING STROLL (6 HR)
4000
Waxy moon, wet earth, pine sap, the storied leaf of devotion wherever we roam.
STAYCATION (24 HR)
inquire
Poolwater, coconut, sunscreen, salty-sweet vibration of a woman's clacking footsteps.
LITTLE WONDER (2 HR)
2200
Tart apple skin. Black cherry. Tongue-in-cheek dramatics. Bursts of stolen time.
OMAKASE (4 HR)
3200
The bounce of fine crystal, nine courses, a vignette of infinite possibilities.
SLUMBER PARTY (12-16 HR)
5500-6500
Plush terrycloth, boyfriend denim, fuzzy feeling stronger than dark roast espresso.
WEEKEND WHIRLWIND (48 HR)
inquire
Vanilla swirl, sandalwood, mahogany. Unbridled joy as constant as the sun.
TRAVEL
Available to fly anywhere within the US, 12 hour min
International, inquire
Available to train to areas surrounding NYC, 6 hour min
Expenses (accommodations, travel fees) and a 50% deposit are required in advance.
SCHEDULING
My availability starting Fall 2025 is limited and as such, I will be more selective about the company I keep. Please be prepared to reach out well in advance, by filling out the form above as completely as possible and either I or my trusted assistant C will get back to you.
All dates require a small non-refundable electronic deposit. Lengthier dates may require a larger deposit at my discretion.
Dates cancelled at least 72 hours in advance may be rescheduled to a later date, no questions asked. Dates cancelled at least 48 hours in advance may be rescheduled, given another deposit is made. Dates cancelled within 24 hours are considered no-shows and will need to be paid in full.
DISCLAIMERS
Trust me, you'll want me fed within the duration of 3 hours.
Outdoor social time must account for dates 4 hours or longer.
In-date extensions are $1000 per additional hour.
For dates 12+ hours, I aim for eight hours of sleep per night. Again, trust me.
For multi-day excursions, I request separate rooms and/or time for solitude.
I keep girlfriends in New York City, San Francisco, and Los Angeles, and rates must be matched. For couples, add an additional 200 per hour.
Upholding a reputation built on discretion: Personal data collected serves as screening to ensure a smooth and pleasant date for both parties. By agreeing to set a date, you also agree to a strict no-review policy.
Please note, all compensation is for my time and companionship only.
Physical intimacy is neither contracted nor compensated for.
RITUALISTIC PLEASURES
Tailored affairs for established suitors only. When familiarity mingles with novelty, each encounter feels special and new.
3 month minimum commitment
Let's discuss over dinner?
GIFTS
Every object I own is imbued with meaning, a sense of time and place — most are vintage, secondhand, or one-of-a-kind. As a student of life, I'd much prefer investments of the mind. Please inquire to buy me a book, sponsor my educational courses, or contribute to a down payment on my NYC townhouse.
That said, I am a woman, and I love to shop. If you choose to gift me something from my curated list, just know I will think of you every time I look at it.
Deliveries:
Baskets by Alimentary Flaneur and Flamingo Estate
Stems by Erin Medina (contact: erinmedinanyc@protonmail.com)
Wellness:
Shibui at the Greenwich Hotel
My pilates studio (inquire)
